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Insight into Decision Making:




A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused.

Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange.

You can make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the kids.

However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed.

Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make................


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Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child.

You might think the same way, I guess.

Exactly, to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally.

But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday.
In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined.

And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.


The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens..

If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe.

If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake!

And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.


'Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right.'

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils.

it's up to the one, you!


One song can spark a moment
One flower can wake the dream
One tree can start a forest
One bird can herald spring

One smile begins the friendship
One handclap lifts a soul
One star can guide a ship at sea
One word can frame the goal

One vote can change the nation
One sunbeam lights a room
One candle wipes out darkness
One laugh will conquer gloom

One step start each journey
One word must start each prayer
One hope will raise our spirits
One touch will show you care

One voice can speak with wisdom
One heart can know what's true
One life can make the difference
You see, it's up to the one, you!

My birthday celebration 3

Today is 29 November 2009 and still, it is a memorable day.
Before i start posting this post, i will like to advise all of you that
we shouldn't be so easily angered especially guys.
Do wish people happy birthday when it is their birthday. :)

Alright, went to church for practise at 8 today.
And I had a suprise from FF and Kheng Seong.
They actually still celebrate my brithday with me.
They sang a song - i am only me when i am with you
by Taylor swift. So gam dong!

Thanks bao for the cupcakes.
Thanks Kheng Seong for the card.
Thanks Leongs for the present.

Really happy that all of you celebrated my birthday with me.
Especially to bel, thank you for the video! :D

My birthday celebration 2

I celebrated my birthday with Steven on 28 November.
We went to cee ceong gai at first.
We were looking for something, but didnt manage to get it.

So then, we went to Berjaya Time Square.
We travelled by Lrt and we stopped at KL Central station,
and we need to change to monorail and stop at Imbi.

We went to have our lunch at gasoline and
we went to theme park after that.
I realised that i can't play all that as i will feel
dizzy and vomit. Though i wasn't feeling that well
but still I thank steven for all these.

Thank you for celebrating my birthday with me,
even though you know that you are having your SPM.
Thank you for sharing all your thoughts with me.
Thank you for being at my side when i need you.

My sweet sixteen has passed and i am having my SPM
next year. I hope everything will remain like now and
it won't change. Bel, thanks for the video. Appreciate it! xD

My birthday celebration 1

I celebrated my first birthday which is on 27 Nov with FF.
I am really happy that my friends were being so understanding.
Being understanding in the way that they compromised
to celebrate my birthday on 27th. I am really happy.

We went to 1u around 11.30 and we had sushi for brunch.
Then, we went to TGV and we watched "New Moon".
I personally think that twilight is better than new moon.
Twilight is better because it is more romantic than new moon.

After we came out from the cinema, we saw Bao's parents.
So, we went back together.
FF : Honestly, i feel disappointed when we went back so early.
Because i don't hope that my 2009 birthday is just so short! :(

I still remember last year when we watched twilight,
we said that we will watch new moon again this year.
Same goes to next year, i hope no matter what we can still
watch breaking dawn next year. Just put SPM aside.

Ahh, i can't sleep on that night, i went to bed at 11 and
i woke up at 3 then i slept back at 6 again.
I thank everyone that wished me happy birthday.
I had a sweet 16 birthday! :) Love Fantastic Four.

My Secondary school?

I just read jo ee's blog and it let me realise that

i actually don't have a good memory in secondary school
like what she has in school. I only have Bao with me. Nothing else.
That's my secondary school life in school?

To : Bao , From : Qing

Thanks for the post in ur blog.
It actually made me think of many things.

Yeah, i still remember the day when i went to school.
I was really panic and scared because i don't know
a single person in that "big and clean" school.
When i was in the canteen, i actually saw your name
on the list and i was QUITE happy. Why quite?
Because i am not sure whether you are that Bao or not.
After all, when i saw you in the class..
I really really feel happy and excited.
It was like, GOSHH.. MY EX-CLASSMATE man.

The another very gan jiong part when we were in Form 1 and 2,
the time where we actually shivered when we pass through
the Bilik Disiplin. Cikgu Rashifi will like, NICOLE!!! JIA BOU!!!!
Haha, still remember how he pronounced your name.
That time everyone was laughing for the pronunciation.

Skipping skipping (ponteng ponteng) became our habit.
We started from the mini mini one, remember?
The time we skip PJK? So many excuses.
Like : Tolong cikgu, bilik disiplin and many many more.
We were really innocent when we were in Form 1.
You actually bu shuang when i always only talk to Kheng.
And i will bu shuang you when you keep talking to her too.
The most CHILDISH part was, we gek-ed each other. =)
We used her to gek each other, that was really funny.

OH YEAH, still remember "mou 3"?
Every time when i look at the card you and kheng gave,
i will laugh at it LAST TIME, now i will just smile.
The most -.- part is liang lao shi's WISH!
How about your card? Still keeping it?
"12 o'clock, tie, tree". CHILDISH.. but yet FUNNY! :)

Rainy day will be a suffering day to us,
we always turunkan the bendera no matter
how heavy the rain is. The only thing that i can remember is..
I CAN'T remember how many times we became chicken.
(call me if you don't understand this sentence)
Do you know that is okay if we don't keep it when it is raining?

Many many things seem being thrown aside.
Lets chase back the time where we actually
kept laming, joking and laming and joking.
Our friendship is a true and good friendship,
but i know something went wrong between us.
I hope as I grow, i will learn how to care for people
around me and being understanding especially to you.

Thank you for being a good friend,
you are really good just that recently we need to
communicate more and LIAO JIE each other more.
I love you, Bao.=)

28 November 2009

I am clarified as sixteen from today onwards but still,

I am YOUNG. You do not need to doubt that.

16, what does sixteen means to you?
What does sixteen actually mean to me?

To me, it is a beginning of REAL exams-mare.
To me, it is a ending of my honeymoon year.

I appreciate that God has given me a chance to actually
sit in front of the computer and type all these.
It is a grace from God and it is not what we are suppose to get.
This is all because God loves us.

Though today is my birthday, i should sound happy.
But i always think that what if i am not given a chance
to stay longer in this world? I know i will have many
regrets and i tried to do everything that I can to show
how much i care and how much i love to everyone.

But i think I didn't manage to do so.
Whatever i do, it will not go to the original purpose of mine.
But I'm still being gracious that God has given me
what He thinks is good to me like..
My family, FF and Steven.
I thank God for that. :)